Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)

1. Do we both have to answer each question or can I answer one and my partner answers the next, and so on?

It’s completely up to you! You can both answer every question to explore each other’s perspectives, or take turns responding one at a time. We do recommend both answering when possible—hearing how you each approach the same question can reveal surprising similarities or differences that deepen your connection. That said, there’s no strict structure. The key is to go with what feels natural for your dynamic and to stay open and engaged with each other.

2. Do we need to answer a question from each category?

Not at all! The categories are there to guide you, but you’re free to play however feels right for you. You can stick to one category, mix them up, or even skip any that don’t feel relevant in the moment. The game is all about creating space for honest, meaningful connection—on your terms.

3. We don’t feel like playing it for long, will this affect the gameplay?

Not at all! “How Do You Feel?” is designed to be as flexible as you need it to be. Whether you ask just a few questions or play for a longer session, the goal is quality conversation—not quantity. Even a short round can spark meaningful moments. Pick it up whenever you’re in the mood—there’s no right or wrong way to play.

4. Can we play this together with other people?

“How Do You Feel?” was designed for couples to connect one-on-one, so many of the questions are personal and best suited for private conversations. However, if you’re with close friends or in a group that’s comfortable with deeper discussions, you can absolutely adapt the game for a group setting—just be mindful of everyone’s comfort level.

5. We haven’t been in a relationship for long - can we still play this?

Absolutely! “How Do You Feel?” is perfect for couples at any stage. If you’re just starting out, the game can help you learn more about each other in a meaningful, low-pressure way. It’s a great way to build emotional connection, spark deeper conversations, and discover how you both think and feel—even early on.

6. Is this game suitable to play while kids are around?

While “How Do You Feel?” is a conversation game designed to deepen emotional connection between couples, some questions may touch on personal or intimate topics best discussed in private. For the most meaningful experience, we recommend playing it when you have some uninterrupted time together—ideally when the kids are asleep or otherwise occupied.

7. Is this game inclusive of all relationships?

Yes! “How Do You Feel?” is designed to support emotional connection in all types of romantic relationships—regardless of gender, orientation, or identity. The questions are open-ended and non-gendered, making the game welcoming and meaningful for everyone.

8. Can we play this if we’re going through a rough patch?

Yes, “How Do You Feel?” can actually be a great tool for couples going through challenges. The game’s questions encourage open communication and can help you explore each other’s feelings in a safe, non-judgmental space. However, it’s important to play when both partners feel ready to engage in meaningful conversations and be open to each other’s perspectives.

9. Can we customize the questions to suit our relationship?

Absolutely! While the questions in the game are designed to foster meaningful conversations, you can always adapt them to suit your personal style or relationship. Feel free to skip or change a question if it doesn’t quite fit the moment or your preferences—it’s all about making the experience work for you.

10. Is this game suitable for long-distance couples?

Definitely! “How Do You Feel?” is perfect for long-distance couples. You can play remotely, either through video chat or even phone call. The game helps bridge the distance by fostering meaningful conversations, making it a great way to stay connected emotionally no matter the miles between you.